Shanghai Daily News
When he is in class, Xu Rui is a quiet and diligent student, listening
attentively, thinking actively and taking notes meticulously.
As a postgraduate math major studying at Fudan University in Yangpu District,
the Shandong Province native who deals with numbers, equations and axis all day
long, has gotten into the habit of thinking twice before speaking.
After class, however, the 23-year-old turns from being a docile and discreet
student into an active and ardent fundraiser. He is the chairman of the Xianghui
Children's Hope Charity Fund and the chief director of the Postgraduate Union's
Youth Volunteer Department.
"I feel lucky to be a part of this 'love cause,' although it was totally by
accident," Xu said with a smile.
Two years ago he was chosen as a recommended postgraduate because of his
excellent academic performances; this college boy, who was absorbed in a world
of math and an expert in theorems on the basis of axioms and postulates, only
had a vague idea of what charities were about.
"Without unemployment pressure like my fellow students, I had plenty of time
and wanted to do something good after so many years of working on the books," he
said. "I happened to see the Postgraduate Union was recruiting new members so I
signed up, not knowing I would be assigned to the Youth Volunteer Department."
Starting with running errands, distributing brochures and putting up posters,
Xu faithfully adhered to his duties, though they were trivial and boring. But
what this newbie found really awkward and dismaying was to collect money in
front of the school canteen.
"At first, I felt like a beggar who was asking for people's pity and alms on
the street," he said with a bitter smile. "What was worse, many of them just
walked away, turning their backs on our collection box."
For Xu, it was not an easy time for him solve math problems. His charity work
needed patience and perseverance instead of the high IQ required for his
studies.
Soon, teachers' offices, classrooms, the canteen, alumni parties and the
school's Youth League branch where all places Xu staked out to promote his
projects, raise funds and get support.
"Sometimes I had to skip classes, so staying up late at night to make up
those missed lessons became a common occurrence for me," he said with a shrug of
his shoulders.
His efforts, however, paid off at last as more than 60 classes and
individuals have joined his programs over the past two years. They have donated
more than 60,000 yuan (US$7,500) to aid 60 unprivileged children from poor
families in Wujiaochang, the community where Fudan is located.
"I remembered how shocked I was the first time I stepped into a sponsored
child's home. Four people lived in a flat no more than 20 square meters. They
had to share a bathroom and a kitchen with their neighbors," Xu recalled,
shaking his head. "Those kids, often ignored and excluded from their peers, are
usually timid and introverted, reluctant to communicate with others."
He said he realized that besides money, the children also needed love and
care. Every week, he and other volunteers go to the families' homes to play
games, shop with them and providing tutoring.
"To some extent, I think it helps more than mere money," he theorized.
Last year, Xu was promoted to chief director of the Youth Volunteer
Department in charge of the Xianghui Children's Hope Charity Fund.
He feels much has changed in his life and outlook during the past two years.
"I have become much busier, more sociable and more sympathetic towards
those who are suffering."
He said that it was difficult for him now to just walk away from beggars on
the street. "Especially when I see some handicapped or deformed children. Even
though I know a lot of them might not be real beggars."
In his quarters at the university are piles of letters from the parents of
sponsored children he has helped, expressing their gratitude.
"I hope more people can step out of their cold world and extend their hands
to help those in need. Virtue is its own reward," Xu said.
For more information, e-mail Xu at fdgsu@fudan.edu.cn.