Wendy Zhang/ Shanghai Daily news
A growing number of young married employees, especially women, are pretending
to be single for fear that their married status will prove detrimental to their
career, today's Shanghai Morning Post reported.
Zhou, a 29-year-old woman,
has hidden her married status for several years. " I decided to do so because
many of my friends lost chances for promotion just because they were married,"
Zhou explained. " I never wear my wedding ring at the office, nor do I put
pictures of my husband and son in my wallet. I always associate with unmarried
women at the office," she said, adding that marital status is a private matter,
and that she didn't consider that she had done anything wrong.
Not only
married women but also married men are pretending to be single.
Yan, a
25-year-old male employee, said he had no choice but to hide the fact that he
was married. "As the sales job takes me to many dinner-parties, I frequently
return home late at night. When I discuss business with clients, they don't want
anyone, especially a wife or girl-friend, to interrupt," Yan explained, adding
that sometimes clients will not invite married men to their parties.
However, the disguise has its price. They cannot receive or make family
calls at the office, nor can they take their colleagues home.
On the other
hand, employers have their own reasoning. "If two female candidates have
equivalent qualifications, and one is married but the other is not, I will
definitely choose the single one, as married women display lower work efficiency
when compared to single ones," said Zhang, a supervisor with a local
company.
Fierce job competition has made people more cautious, and has also
made them more cold and detached in their relations with colleagues, said an
industry analyst.