By Tang Wenjie
What sort of drama reaches 50 percent
in the ratings when it airs in South Korea?
Like most people, I was curious
about the show.
When I finally got the chance to see it, I totally absorbed
myself in the story. To this day, it still haunts me.
Kim Sam-Soon (the name
of the drama is "My Name is Kim Sam-Soon)," is the lead character. She is a
chubby and fanciful pastry chef in her late 20s who desperately wants to get
married.
However, on Christmas Eve she loses her job and finds out her
boyfriend slept with another woman.
Later, an Italian restaurant owner named
Hyun Jin-Heon provides an offer she can't refuse because she is in a financial
jam.
The story is similar to "Cinderella" although Kim is no
Cinderella.
She is from a poor family and not particularly attractive in any
way.
Even her kindness, along with her many merits, is sometimes obliterated
by her ill manner.
Nevertheless, I am overwhelmed by her virtues. Kim never
allows herself to be offended and always speaks her mind.
In one scene, Kim
meets a consultant in a matchmaker agency to look for a partner. As the
consultant explains it may be difficult to find a match due to her age and
unemployment, Kim says, "Yes, I am jobless. But am I jobless because I want to
be? Bring me all those people who destroyed Korea's economy!"
These days I
share Kim's happiness and sadness.
But what I hang on to most is the
doctrine of the story.
In most TV series, 30 years old is always portrayed
as a watershed.
Unmarried women in their 30s with modest earnings and poor
looks are unanimously regarded as disadvantaged.
But Kim inspires this group
to see the world through a rosy window.
Youth, beauty or money, none of these
guarantee a happy marriage.
To ensure the favor of destiny, it is qualities
like self-esteem, dedication, loyalty, tolerance, insistence and bravery that
women require.
How will viewers react towards an average woman in the leading
role? The popularity of the drama speaks for itself.
(The author is an English teacher at Shanghai High School.)